Black Tie Matters

13 February 2025

Black Tie: A beginners Guide to Dressing The Part

Black Tie. Two simple words that strike fear into the uninitiated and smug satisfaction into those who have mastered it. But fear not his isn't some secret society with a dress code designed to trip you up. In fact, black tie is refreshingly straightforward. Follow the rules, and you'll look like a million bucks. Ignore them, and you risk looking like a magician at a children's party.


What Is Black Tie?


Let's start with the basics. Black tie is formal eveningwear, typically worn for events that begin after 6 p.m. Think gala dinners, awards ceremonies, elegant parties, and importantly weddings. It sits above a lounge suit in the dress code hierarchy but below white tie (which is the full aristocratic regalia).


At its core, black tie is about simplicity, refinement, and uniformity. Unlike a business suit, which allows for a bit of self-expression, a black-tie outfit is about looking harmonious with the other guests. Think of it as the sartorial equivalent of an orchestra, everyone playing their part to create a stunning visual symphony.


When to Wear Black Tie


If an invitation says black tie, the decision is made for you, no interpretation required. But even if it doesn't', a black-tie outfit can elevate any formal occasion. Weddings, in particular, are the perfect opportunity to don eveningwear. It ensures the groom and guests look sharp, photographs beautifully, and adds a touch of old-world glamour that a standard suit simply will never match.


And let's be honest, in an era where dress codes are getting sloppier by the day, wearing black tie shows you care. It's a nod to tradition, an act of respect for the occasion, and frankly a guaranteed nailed on way to look fantastic.


The Rules: What to Wear


Black tie is simple when you break it down. Stick to these essentials, and you'll be the best-dressed man in the room:


The Dinner Jacket (Tuxedo to our American friends)

Black or midnight blue

Single-breasted or double-breasted

Peak lapels or shawl collar (never notched that's for business suits)

No vents for a more formal silhouette (our house style)


The Trousers

Matching fabric to the jacket

A satin or grosgrain silk stripe down the side

No belt loops

Fishtail back trousers with braces (our house style)

Side adjusters are also an option


The Shirt

White, with a pleated or Marcella front

A turn-down collar

Double cuffs, fastened with cufflinks


The Bow Tie

Black, silk, and self-tied (clip-ons are for school plays)

Proportionate to your face, nothing too big or comically small


The Waist Covering

With a single breasted jacket. A black waistcoat or cummerbund (both help with the clean lines of the outfit)

If you opt for a cummerbund, pleats face upwards (to catch the crumbs from all the canapés you'll be eating)

With a double breasted jacket. No waist covering should be worn.


The Shoes

Black patent leather or well-polished Oxfords

Black patent eveningwear opera pumps

Black velvet eveningwear slippers (our favourite)

No brogues, no loafers, and certainly no trainers


Accessories

A white pocket square (neatly folded)

Cufflinks, elegant, simple, and in keeping with the formality

If you must wear a watch, keep it discreet (a dress watch, no chunky sports pieces)


What Not to Wear

A standard black suit (a dinner jacket and suit jacket are not interchangeable)

A long tie (it's called black tie for a reason)

A coloured or patterned shirt (keep it crisp and white)

Novelty waistcoats, socks, or anything that screams best man gone rogue


Why Black Tie is Perfect for Weddings


If you're getting married, or attending a wedding where eveningwear is encouraged, black tie is a no-brainer. It elevates the occasion, ensures uniformity among guests, and guarantees timeless photos. A well-tailored dinner suit gives a groom the presence he deserves, standing out while still keeping to the refined aesthetic of the day.


Beyond weddings, investing in a proper black-tie outfit pays off. You'll always be prepared for formal events, and unlike a trendy suit that may date, a classic dinner jacket never ever goes out of style.


Ready to elevate your black tie experience? Whether you need a bespoke or custom tuxedo or expert tailoring, we're here to help you look your best. Contact us today to schedule your consultation and make a statement at your next formal event!

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